Thursday, November 21, 2013
Dan In Real Life Q&A
I think it is good to write about what you know because it will help you connect with your readers more. You also happen to be an expert on this subject so you can get more out of this than something you know nothing about. It is a good idea to be open to other things, but you cannot just jump into something that is totally unexpected. Thinking out of the box, and exploring new things is helpful, but writing about what you know is a good thing.
I think that Dan wants the best for his children. At first he wanted his daughters just to do what he says. By the end of the movie he realized that he was teaching his daughters to do what he says, but don't do what I do. Considering he did not want one of his daughters to go after her boyfriend that she claimed to have loved. He ended up going a bit crazy for the woman that he loved. He was being a bit hypocritical, but at the end of the movie he changed for the better.
I think someone who is a attractive can be physically attractive or have an attractive personality. Honestly I think to be a "hottie" you have to have a good personality along with the looks in this era. Expectations are high, almost to where no one can reach this kind of status, but most people strive to become a "hottie". Many people would think guys who have abs, are tan, tall, amazing eyes, and perfect white teeth are attractive. Most of the guys who are like this do not have good personalities at all because they think highly of themselves. That is all they focus on is appearance when they should be thinking about personality. Those guys are going to be the ones who are unhappy the rest of their lives or won't be in a good, healthy relationship.
Age limit on certain types of things is okay to a point, but giving children a bit more freedom will make for a responsible child. Relationships should not be limited at a certain age, because even if there are restrictions on dating, it doesn't mean that the child will not date. It's just another rule to break for the child. Many people that I have come to know, have had "boyfriends" in elementary school and middle school. They might not have been real relationships, but that still counts as dating to most people. This is harmless dating, there shouldn't be restriction on the age of dating, there should be restrictions on dating itself. For example, curfew, where they are going on the date, and if the parents approve of the guy or girl. The way a girl dresses or the clothes that she buys should be her choice. If a thong is what she desires, let her have it. If you've raised a good girl, a thong should not be the biggest of your worries.
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Your last statement really captures so much about parenting--you can guide and shape someone and if you've done it well, you can more easily let go. I've found that it's not my child I'm worried about, it's other people out there, so you're right that there's so much more to worry about than the clothes he chooses.
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